Fashion: Fly & Fresh v. Grown & Sexy

I am a Junior in college and it wasn't until my senior year of high school that I learned to wear high heels. The end of High School meant Prom, senior dinner and a bunch of big events, galas and balls. I found this beautiful BCBG dress to wear to prom and one of my mom's best friends told me "That dress is fly, you better not wear flats even if it kills you." I sucked it up and got these cute Guess pumps that I made it through almost all of prom without taking off. By the grace of God I went from wearing nothing but sneakers to wearing stilettos in a year. My heel game is fierce; however, my first love will always be kicks.

I'm not the biggest sneakerhead but living outside of New York, I definitely could claim that and no one would disagree. I love the scent of fresh jordans that are so crisp it almost makes you sad to wear them. One of my friends at school is also from Harlem and (god bless her soul) girl went bougie on me and she has no shame in her game. She told me I need to grow up. I was told by the time I become a senior, I have to retire my sneakers.

I've already traded in the North Face Book bag for a leather canvas backpack and I freeze my butt off in winter to wear a peacoat but how can I give up my sneakers. I know I can't wear jordans at 30. But it might just be too soon. On the block it's not an issue but at college and interning in a corporate law firm over the summer, sneakers are gym wear.... Does wearing a blazer with dunks qualify as a happy medium, an adequate compromise? I switch between Fly & Fresh and Grown & Sexy on any given day. It's only natural that my style will evolve but all I can think about currently is how I plan on pinching the already tight college budget for the new Jordan 60+ Atlanta Hawk Colorway. (They're in my sorority colors!) I got a Blackberry Tour a week ago and that was all in the name of being grown and professional, so for now I will just have to keep an even balance sheet.






Deuces,
Naz

YOU WILL GET CHEATED ON.....

Now this blog post was not an original idea, it was suggested by someone at my job. The concept is very simple. I believe in being faithful and honest and all that good stuff. HOWEVER!! Should any of the following men come into my life, YOU WILL GET CHEATED ON.

Will Demps
No words. He makes me speechless.

Michael Ealy
Ever since I saw Barbershop, I had to know homeboy's name. My linesister performed with him this summer and it was one of the few times in my life I knew what it was like to be jealous seeing as how that's an emotion I fortnately don't naturally indulge in. Now had I not been working/ gone home for the summer my ass would have got to cheer her on and feast on all that is Michael Ealy.


Anthony Romeo Santos
Romeo is the lead singer of this mega star Bachata group called Aventura for those not up on the Latin Music scene. He also happens to be the future father of my children. He's half Puerto Rican (woot, woot!!) and Domincan from he Bronx. He's got that typical BX Latino swagger I miss and love. One minute he's in jeans and a sweater and next he's got on a skin tight tee and dress slacks like the only Dominican.

Pitbull
His songs have me convinced he's a freak.

Lil Wayne
Lil Wayne is the least attractive and he's short (Love me a tall ass man). However, he is on this list for ne simple reason. I'm a lady (minus my pension for cursing, I blame my grandmother) so I won't say certain things directly but I sure as hell can insinuate. He has a song in which he goes LA-LA-LA-LA-LA-LA-LA......


Deuces,
Naz